Monday, 28 August 2017

What is the most inhumane thing you've ever seen?

Read this and you will cry for sure...

It has to be the couple I saw while traveling through India.
They were looking tired, had torn clothes and were busy polishing the shoes of every customer who was shouting at them to get it done fast.
They were both in their seventies. But I could see that both of them looked odd, as if they didn't belong to the particular job. My train was late for another couple of hours and I had ample time to watch this couple work.
I only had 600 rupees left in my wallet. Something about them gave me the impression that they wouldn't accept money if I gave them freely. Afterall, they were working not begging. So, I went to the nearest Chaiwala (Tea seller) and asked him to give them both a cup of tea and breakfast.
He looked at me and said: “Sahib, Woh nahi lenge.” ( Sir, they won't accept.)
I told him to give them nonetheless and to tell them it was from a well-wisher.
The Chaiwala did as I said and after ten minutes, convinced them to have breakfast.
The Chaiwala told me that they have been working there for past six months. And then, with a slight pain in his eyes, said this:
“ They were daily wage workers and have five children who are happily married and are doing well. They worked hard to raise them and put them through school. But, despite all that, none of them want to look after them.”
“Woh beghar hain.” (They are homeless.)
I remember reading something similar in an article couple of years ago, the words still echo in my heart.
30 years we toiled, to ensure that our kids don't live in a shanty like we did. Turns out we failed; neither's house is big enough to have us.

What is the most heartbreaking thing your child has told you?

My husband died suddenly when my son was 5 years old. I sat him down the next day to explain to him that daddy had died. I had to do it in a calm, almost practical tone because I didn't want him to cry. I felt that he was too young for his heart to be broken that way. He took it all in calmly.
Then he said to me, “Mommy, I want a new heart, this one hurts.”
I learned that day how much physical effort it takes to stop oneself from crying.

What gives you goosebumps?


Many would have felt this, ask Indians It's true.
Jaya hey,jaya hey,jaya hey
Jaya...jaya…jaya…jaya…hey.
Whenever I stand in a crowd and sing this last line of Jana Gana Mana (Indian national anthem).
Every time… Every single time, I get goosebumps.